其實,就是因為人生不完美,才美。
轉個想法你會發現──99分比100分更好!
你想擁有完美的人生嗎?
我們每個人在社會的期盼下,都努力在各方面追求完美──設法看起來更年輕、賺更多錢、隨時都顯得很快樂。但根據紐約時報暢銷書《更快樂:哈佛最受歡迎的一堂課》作者班夏哈的說法,追求「完美」本身可能正是我們追尋快樂的途中最大的障礙。
還是你想活得更快樂?
班夏哈運用正向心理學領域的突破性新研究──也就是他在哈佛大學最受歡迎的一堂課中教導的科學原理──引領我們放棄追求完美的不可能任務,踏上通往真正快樂、富裕和滿足的道路,指出看待成功和失敗的最佳方式。
他在書中還提供了自我反省的練習、靜思冥想的方法,以及適時插入的小提醒,幫助我們重新找到自己真正想要的人生。他提出許多強而有力的論證告訴我們,並不是非得追求完美,才能獲得幸福圓滿的人生。
★本書中譯本《99分:快樂就在不完美的那條路上》由美商麥格羅‧希爾出版
DO YOU WANT YOUR LIFE TO BE PERFECT?
We're all laboring under our own and society's expectations to be perfect in every way-to look younger, to make more money, to be happy all the time. But according to Tal Ben-Shahar, the New York Times bestselling author of Happier, the pursuit of perfect may actually be the number-one internal obstacle to finding happiness.
OR DO YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY?
Applying cutting-edge research in the field of positive psychology-the scientific principles taught in his wildly popular course at Harvard University-Ben-Shahar takes us off the impossible pursuit of perfection and directs us to the way to happiness, richness, and true fulfillment. He shows us the freedom derived from not trying to do it all right all the time and the real lessons that failure and painful emotions can teach us.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE PERFECT TO BE PERFECTLY HAPPY!
In The Pursuit of Perfect, Tal Ben-Shahar offers an optimal way of thinking about failure and success--and the very way we live. He provides exercises for self reflection, meditations, and “Time-Ins” to help you rediscover what you really want out of life.
作者簡介
塔爾.班夏哈(Tal Ben-Shahar)
美國紐約時報暢銷書《更快樂》(Happier)的作者。他開的課是哈佛大學有史以來最受歡迎的一堂課,目前則在世界各地擔任顧問及演說講課,對象包括跨國組織、社會大眾及高危險族群。他是哈佛大學的組織行為學博士及哲學及心理學學士。
Tal Ben-Shahar, Ph.D., is the New York Times bestselling author of Happier. He taught the most popular course at Harvard University and currently teaches at the Interdisciplinary Center, Herzliya, Israel. He consults and lectures around the world to multinational organizations, the general public, and at-risk populations. He obtained his Ph.D. in organizational behavior and his B.A. in philosophy and psychology from Harvard. For more information visit www.talbenshahar.com.