I Bought My Own Ring: A Manual On What Not To Do, Then What To Do Once You’ve Done It

A raw, courageous journey of resilience, growth, and self-discovery. Part memoir, part guide, this book dives into the messy, beautiful reality of life’s missteps and the hard-won lessons they offer. With wit, wisdom, and vulnerability, Thabi M recounts a path filled with stumbles- through the depths of trauma, abuse, addiction, and self-destruction into the light of healing, purpose, and faith.
But this isn’t just a story of what went wrong -it’s a blueprint for rising after the fall. It serves as a roadmap for anyone who feels trapped, powerless, or lost.

Be Empowered to:

• Own Your Story, Heal Your Life:

Discover how embracing your past can transform pain into strength, allowing you to reclaim your power and build a future that honours your true self.

• Find Strength in Vulnerability:

Learn that true resilience comes not from hiding your scars but from sharing them; your journey can inspire others and deepen your healing.

• Create a Life Aligned with Your Purpose:

Unlock the connection between mental, spiritual, physical, and emotional wellness to design a life that reflects who you are and who you’re meant to become.
I Bought My Own Ring is a testament to the strength that comes from taking ownership of our stories; it’s a lifeline for those ready to reclaim their story and rebuild their lives from the inside out.

About the Author - Thabi Masilo
Thabi Masilo--known to many as Thabi M., is an International Media Personality, Certified Life Coach, and Published Author with a passion for inspiring transformation. With a degree in Clinical Psychology from the University of Johannesburg and accreditation from the Health Professions Council of South Africa, Thabi brings a wealth of expertise to her work, blending psychology with a holistic approach to life coaching.
As an SDG (Sustainable Development Goals) Ambassador, she’s committed to impacting lives on a global scale, championing mental health, resilience, and empowerment.
Known for her vibrant love of travel, talk, fashion, and all things glitter, Thabi M. uses her platforms to connect with audiences worldwide, guiding them on paths of healing and self-discovery.
Her work, both on and off the page, is dedicated to helping others find hope and courage in their personal journeys.