The 12 Commandments to of a Wife "In Progress", is a christian-based devotional for married women, written by Cassandra (Cassi) Martin. Birthed out of her personal wins and failures as a woman and a wife, it is in turn her attempt to extend a hand and some encouragement to wives that may feel like they’re losing. Martin challenges wives to dig deep and to take personal responsibility for changing themselves within their marriages. She reminds women that they can make it, as they walk through their marriage journey as wives in progress!