The Strategy of Love: Unmasking Control, Reclaiming Power, and Choosing Peace Without Apology

Love was never meant to be a strategy.

In The Strategy of Love: Unmasking Control, Reclaiming Power, and Choosing Peace Without Apology, author and mentor Miriam Mathew exposes the subtle ways control hides inside care-and how women of faith can break free from cycles of manipulation disguised as ＂submission＂ or ＂sacrifice.＂

Blending psychology, Scripture, and lived wisdom, Miriam teaches readers how to:

- Recognise emotional and spiritual coercion disguised as love.
- Rebuild boundaries that breathe-with clarity, compassion, and courage.
- Heal from invisible warfare without losing tenderness or faith.
- Choose peace without apology-and love without self-erasure.

This is not a book about bitterness-it’s a field guide for awakening.

With her signature ＂Holy Spirit whisper＂ woven through every chapter, Miriam offers women a way to stay soft without being silent, strong without becoming hard, and faithful without being fooled.

Because real love is never control-it’s freedom practised as partnership.

For readers of Lysa TerKeurst and Sarah Jakes Roberts, The Strategy of Love is a faith-filled guide for women reclaiming peace, purpose, and divine wisdom after hidden control or spiritual manipulation.