You Only Live Twice: A Transgender Memoir

The book You Only Live Twice takes readers on a deeply personal journey through the life of its author, navigating the challenges and triumphs of living as a transgender individual. Growing up in the tight-knit communities of West Virginia and Kentucky, the author recounts the trials of childhood and adolescence, grappling with identity amidst the backdrop of societal and familial expectations. The narrative explores themes of self-discovery, mental health, and resilience, offering insight into the complexities of transitioning later in life. With honesty and vulnerability, You Only Live Twice illuminates the path to authenticity and the courage it takes to live one’s truth, providing a compelling and inspirational testament to the power of being seen.

Jay Defazio knew from a young age he was in the wrong body. After birthing children and being married for many years, he transitioned from a woman. As a man, his children still call him mom.