The Unbothered Button
How to Set Boundaries, Reclaim Your Peace, and Stop Absorbing Everyone Else’s Chaos by Dr. Shiloh Werkmeister
What if you could opt out of other people’s drama-and never feel guilty about it again?
In The Unbothered Button, psychotherapy and boundary expert, Dr. Shiloh Werkmeister, delivers a bold, compassionate guide for anyone who feels emotionally drained, chronically overcommitted, or stuck in patterns of people-pleasing. This book is your permission slip to stop absorbing everyone else’s chaos-and finally reclaim your own peace.
With clinical wisdom and refreshingly real talk, Dr. Werkmeister shows you how to:
- Recognize when you’re carrying emotions that aren’t yours
- Set boundaries that protect your energy without ruining your relationships
- Detach from guilt, urgency, and the pressure to fix everything
- Reclaim the time, space, and clarity you need to thrive
Whether you’re a helper, a healer, a high-achiever, or just tired of being tired, The Unbothered Button gives you the tools to pause, breathe, and say "not mine" when life gets loud.
Peace is a decision. This book shows you how to make it.