When we speak of virginity, everyone is referring to sex (deflowering of the hymen).Fact: Mrs. NGOY is a virgin, she says, because she’s never had or had sexual intercourse with a man. However, she practices fellatio (the sexual practice of sucking, licking and inserting her partner’s sex into her mouth), sodomy (penetration through the anus) and masturbation. When she’s married, will she still be considered a virgin? It’s up to you, the reader, to answer.That’s why the question about virginity doesn’t necessarily have to be based on sexual contact of the vaginal orifice with a being of the opposite sex, but rather on any act that compromises a woman’s modesty.