Men I Met While Becoming Her: Karmic Lovers, Cosmic Lessons, and the Sacred Chaos of Self-Return

This is not a love story.

It’s a becoming story.

Men I Met While Becoming Her is a raw, funny, and deeply intimate memoir about the men who appeared during a woman’s return to herself - not to save her, complete her, or stay forever, but to initiate her into something deeper.

Told through a series of vividly named chapters - each man a mirror, catalyst, or cautionary tale - this book traces the sacred chaos of dating while healing, awakening, and reclaiming feminine power. From eclipse-lit first kisses and bone-and-feather offerings to situationships that masquerade as fate, these encounters are equal parts romantic comedy and spiritual reckoning.

With sharp humor, sensual honesty, and a mystic’s eye for pattern and meaning, Ava explores what happens when desire meets discernment - and when women stop mistaking chemistry for destiny. This is a story for anyone who has loved deeply, lost wisely, and realized that some relationships are not meant to last... only to teach.

For the lovers.

For the cycle-breakers.

For the women who chose themselves - even when it hurt.