博客來What’s really stopping you is not fear, failure, or a lack of courage.
It’s the sentence you keep ending too soon.
How Big Is Your ＂But＂? is a deeply honest, steady companion for anyone who feels capable of more life but keeps getting stuck at the same invisible line.
I’d love to change, but...
I’d leave, but...
I’d rest, but...
I’d go after what I want, but...
This book is not about bulldozing your fears, burning down your life, or pretending the risks are not real. It is about learning to hear your but for what it actually is. A signal. A boundary. A piece of information. Not a verdict.
Through lived stories, gentle truth telling, and practical reframes, How Big Is Your ＂But＂? explores why so many of us learned to stop our own sentences. It examines how loyalty, grief, burnout, money, marriage, faith, work, family roles, and survival skills quietly grow into full stop moments. Moments where the sentence of our life pauses indefinitely.
This book invites you to do something different.
Not to remove the but
Not to shame it
Not to silence it
But to keep the sentence moving.
You will learn how to recognize when your but is protecting you and when it is imprisoning you. How to distinguish real barriers from inherited ones. How to grieve the life you did not live without letting grief become another excuse to stay frozen. How to turn ＂I want this, but...＂ into ＂I want this, and here is how I will move with integrity, safety, and honesty.＂
This is not a book about reckless change.
It is a book about conscious continuation.
If you have ever felt capable but constrained, loyal but exhausted, grateful but quietly unfulfilled, this book is for you.
Your life does not need a rewrite.
It needs the sentence back.
Unfinished.
Uninterrupted.
Still yours.
