This book is a cursory look at how to deal with the betrayal, the deceit, the depth of dissimulation and the fact that one’s quitting spouse, instead of cleaving to their husband or wife and rejecting strangers, they rejected their spouse and cleaved to strangers. I am, as are those who are the target reader of this book, forced to deal with the things that go hand-in-hand with being divorced against my will. The only question left unanswered is, "Will the quitting spouse disavow the destruction of their marriage and family or will they get on their face and repent"? "Forced upon divorce is an act of the faithless, committing perpetual destruction of the marriage and family and the lives of those related"! Contact Email: sinnernotaquitter@outlook.com Born in 1957 and raised in the Catskill Mountains in upstate New York, the author, Charlie Staats, planned to be married to one woman for life. Subjected to an unwanted divorce at age 62, after 40 years of marriage by the woman who said that she would never divorce, who promised that she would never divorce and whom, vowed before God Almighty that she would never divorce.