ra’chelle

Exactly why you should always date a person for at least 6 months to a year. That way you find out who they really are. Women beware of those that shift out of the blue a lot of times after getting married. Too many are going into relationships & marriages with a onesided way of thinking. Realize that when you commit to that one, y’all become a team. It’s a partnership not one greater than the other so treat & respect each other as such. Both of you have feelings, different way of thinking & different opinions. This is why communication is so important. It doesn’t mean you love each other any less! There will be plenty of times you’ll have to agree to disagree but even then there’s no need to put down the other. If you are in a situation like the one talked about in this book, please get out. Your sanity and health is more important. Don’t let the stress or verbal abuse or physical kill you. God bless.