30 day devotional It's no secret that marriage is under attack but, are you your own worst enemy? Most of us are not equipped with the skills we need to navigate the road to a happy marriage. We are all looking for answers, a way to talk about things, a way to increase intimacy and hope, a way to be happy in our circumstances. Ron and Cindy Ritter have been mentoring couples on how to have a happy marriage God's way for many years. They utilize their own painful "lessons learned" through divorce, their spiritual gifts of pastor/teacher and countless hours of studying the Bible and Christian resources on marriage and divorce. This 30 day devotional is the accumulation of God's redeeming work in their lives. May God richly bless you as you follow His word for your marriage. Table of Contents - Don't Buy the Lie # 1. I know Everything I Need to Know About Marriage 2. We Can Work On Our Marriage When the Children are Grown 3. If I Had a Better Spouse I Would Be Happy 4. God Just Wants Me to Be Happy 5. I Have All The Skills I need To Be Happily Married 6. Marriage is a Destination, Once Your Married You've Arrived 7. My Spouse Will Meet My Needs All Our Married Life 8. Getting Counseling Implies I Have a Problem 9. Marriage is a Contract 10. My Marriage Will Never Change 11. Distance Is a Natural Phase In Marriage 12. I Feel Alone 13. My Feelings Should Drive My Actions 14. If My Spouse is Going to Divorce me There is Nothing I Can Do About It 15. Children Bounce Back from Divorce 16. We Are Not On the Same Team 17. My Spouse is Not Special 18. Conflict is About Winning 19. I Haven't Done Anything Wrong 20. Nothing Good Comes From Conflict 21. Communication is Always Just A Matter of Trying Harder 22. I Don't Have to Communicate Admiration or Thanks 23. The Silent Treatment is OK 24. Time Will Heal The Wound 25. Forgiveness Has To Be Earned 26. Love is NOT Hard Work 27. Love Fades 28. Sex = Romance 29. God Was Not At Our Wedding 30. Submission Is a Dirty Word