suck it up, buttercup: be a leader people will follow

Dominant, direct leaders who don't get emotional get the job done, right? Take charge and cut to the chase, right? Other people who allow their emotions to get in the way of business need to just "Suck it up." Right? Wrong Suck It Up, Buttercup. You might be part of the problem. This short book covers topics ranging from personality styles (how some personality styles rub people the wrong way) to communication (which almost always goes wrong) and lack of common sense ( which is actually a set of learned skills). Chapter 10 is an "Acting Lesson" which challenges you to change (but only for 15 minutes a day). This thought-provoking book emphasizes that you must shut up and listen in order to be a leader people will follow.Also, check out Wendy's second book, "The Asshole Whisperer" Learn how to create company values, provide feedback and understand personality traits in order to deal with crappy leaders and jerks at work. https: //www.amazon.com/gp/product/1712158163

Wendy Sellers is ＂The HR Lady＂ who is often heard saying ＂Suck It Up, Buttercup.＂ The phrase has taken a whole new meaning. In the past, it was directed at what she believed were inept employees. Now it is directed at the true root cause: inept leaders. In Suck It Up, Buttercup, she will show you how to be a strong yet positive, effective leader using skills that motivate people to want to work hard for you and, eventually, increase the bottom line. You will learn exactly how to be a leader people will follow.Wendy is Chief Executive Officer and co-owner of BlackRain Partners LLC. a firm focused on People, Performance, and Profit. With over 20 years’ experience in human resources and leadership development, Wendy speaks up and challenges the status quo. She has helped hundreds of executives increase their organization’s productivity, leading to increased profits. Wendy has a master’s degree in Human Resources, a master’s degree in Health Care Administration and is HR certified as an SHRM-SCP and SPHR. Currently, she lives in Central Florida and frequently travels encouraging business leaders to improve their bottom line. When she’s not working, she enjoys being active in nature, camping, paddle boarding, traveling to unique cities around the globe, volunteering, and simply celebrating life with great wine.