ten things every foster child wishes you knew: a guide to fostering hope

Ten Things Every Foster Child Wishes You Knew is an insightful and deeply personal exploration of the foster care system, offering a unique perspective on the challenges and emotional needs of foster children. Drawing from both personal experiences and the stories of others, the author provides a heartfelt guide for foster carers, social workers, and anyone involved in child welfare, aiming to shed light on the complex realities faced by vulnerable children in care.

This book delves into the psychological impact of childhood trauma and the emotional support necessary for healing and resilience. Through the lens of part memoir, part manual, the author shares vivid memories and reflections on the importance of boundaries, self-worth, and the need for love and empathy in fostering a stable environment for foster children. Each chapter is dedicated to a critical aspect of the foster care experience, from understanding the rules that foster children struggle with, to recognising the importance of being heard and feeling valued.

Ten Things Every Foster Child Wishes You Knew goes beyond the traditional guide, offering a window into the lives of those who have experienced the care system firsthand. It addresses the challenges of childhood trauma, the need for consistent support systems, and the importance of nurturing passion and personal growth in children who have often faced adversity. This book is not just for foster carers but also for social workers, educators, and anyone who interacts with youth in care, providing them with the tools to offer better care and understanding.

By combining elements of autobiography, child advocacy, and practical advice, this book seeks to improve the outcomes for children in foster care. It emphasises the importance of empathy, love, and a strong support network in helping these children overcome the barriers that often stand in their way, such as poor educational and employment outcomes, mental health challenges, and social issues. Through this book, the author hopes to inspire a more compassionate and effective approach to fostering, ensuring that every child in care has the opportunity to thrive and reach their full potential.