things no one taught us about love: how to attract the right relationships and deepen your connections

　　關於愛，我們所知的太少，誤解的太多，於是一再地在各種關係中受挫，
　　這本書幫助我們發覺愛與關係的真相，是任何人都適用的關鍵指南，
　　當我們認真學習愛的課題，所有的關係都能朝正向發展。
 
　　人類生活在群居的社會中，渴望生活在愛與圓滿的關係中，在愛情、親情、友情、職場中，卻難免受傷。《關於愛，我們還沒學會的事》（Things No One Taught Us about Love）將把我們從迷惘中拯救出來，幫助我們認真學習愛的課題。

　　維克斯‧金（Vex King）是很不一樣的心靈導師，已出版暢銷書《沒有好條件，也能夢想成真》（Good Vibes, Good Life）及《內在療癒原力》（Healing is the New High），讓身在世界各處的數萬名讀者，產生高度共鳴，為自己做出改變。

　　您有人際關係或情感的困擾嗎？在處理外部問題之前，請先停下來問問自己，您和自己的關係，夠好嗎？為了能和他人建立關係，我們經常選擇改變自己的習慣，甚至是個性，但長此以往，真實的自我因此被磨損，而我們如此渴望擁有的人際關係，也常常因此受到傷害。

　　世界上最重要的關係，是我們與自己的關係，必須先學會如實地愛全部的自己、好好展現真正的自我，才能全心地付出，感受愛的喜悅，進而與他人建立長久、健康的連結。

　　維克斯‧金（Vex King）充滿智慧的金句，賦予我們改變的力量，他所提供的獨到練習方法，將幫助讀者建立正向思維習慣。當我們認真學習愛的課題，自然能吸引美好的人事物進入生命之中。行動，就從閱讀這本書開始！(文/博客來編譯)

Beloved spiritual teacher Vex King follows up his international bestseller Good Vibes, Good Life with this essential guide to building meaningful, mindful, and loving relationships.

Humans are social animals. But it is nearly impossible to build healthy, sustainable bonds with others without first having a good relationship with yourself. To get along with others, we often alter our habits or subsume our unique personalities. By trying to transform or suppress our true selves, we erode our self-worth and self-knowledge. We begin to lose sight of who we really are and what we truly want. When our self-understanding and self-confidence are damaged, it ultimately hurts our relationships.

In this wise and transformative book--a revised edition of Closer to Love--Vex King helps us find and sustain the connections we want with ourselves and others. Good relationships begin with loving ourselves and recognizing our own desires and needs. This self-discovery allows our best selves to radiate with confidence and to attract and choose partners--romantic and platonic--who are truly compatible. When we feel comfortable in our own skin, we are able to give and receive love without being blocked by the destructive emotions and past trauma that previously held us back and prevented us from forming fulfilling and lasting relationships.

Filled with Vex King’s profound wisdom, thoughtful self-practices, and easy-to adopt-habit builders, this guide opens you up to the love you deserve and shows you how to bring it into your life.