This Is Not How I Thought It Would Be: Remodeling Motherhood to Get the Lives We Want Today

An important look at motherhood and family dynamics in the 21st century���y the national spokesperson of Mothers & More.

Kristin Maschka, past president of Mothers & More, a national organization with more than 140 chapters across the country, shines a spotlight on the complex issues mothers face���t work, in their homes, their lives, and with their partners���and shows how the hidden assumptions that society, the media, public policy, and women themselves hold about motherhood can sabotage a mother�'s happiness.

Maschka weaves together her own story, anecdotes from mothers all over the country, and a deep knowledge of history and society to offer mothers a comforting, often funny read that helps them see themselves and the world around them in a whole new way. At the same time she provides specific actions women can take today to remodel motherhood to live the lives they always thought they would.